Adjusting to Campus Housing
Living in a dorm room can be one of the most rewarding AND challenging experiences in a student’s college career. Many college roommates become best friends and just as many do not. The college roommate experience will be positive if both roommates allow for open and honest communication. Roommates may be very different but that shouldn’t prevent them from getting along. To avoid conflict, discuss your roommate agreement and create some ground rules for living together.
Get to Know Your Roommate
- Talk about ideas and feelings beyond "things."
- Be honest about your feelings, likes, and dislikes.
- Be willing to compromise but know which issues you will not compromise on and which ones you are willing to negotiate.
- Give your roommate the respect, consideration, and understanding you expect in return.
- Allow for conversations to take time and plan accordingly—right before you or your roommate need to leave for class may not be an ideal time.
- Only discuss roommate issues with your roommate or hall staff and not suitemates, floormates or other friends (you may regret it later).
- Values, feelings, ideas, and even interests change, and that's OK! Don’t be upset or hurt when your roommate changes… you may end up doing the same!
- Create room and roommate expectations. Discuss what is and is not okay in the room.
When a student is experiencing a conflict or problem with a roommate, we generally expect the student to first try to discuss the issue directly with their roommate. Residence Life views you as an adult and expects you to attempt to work problems out on your own. Do not be surprised if you go to your RA and are first asked if you have tried to work it out with your roommate on your own. We understand that living in a residence hall room can be one of the most rewarding and challenging experiences in a student’s college career. This is especially true for students who are in their first year of college or sharing a room with someone for the first time in their lives. In many cases it is the parent who will hear about any roommate concerns first, often even before the student shares this concern with their roommate or staff member.
Remember, your roommate is also adjusting to living with you. Be sure to get to know each other and develop open and honest communication with each other.
All room change requests should be made via the Residence Life Housing Portal. Requests will be evaluated based on space availability. If space is available, the student will receive information on their new assignment. Once the student receives the key to the new room, they have 72 hours to complete the move and return the key to their previous residence hall. Students who do not complete the move within the designated time may forfeit the new assignment.
Safety and Security
Southeast Missouri State University and the Office of Residence Life share each student, parent, and family member’s concern about safety. To assist with this critical issue, the University has taken great care in implementing safety and security measures throughout campus and residence halls. Students can only gain access to their residence hall using their University issued key or keycard. All residence halls are locked 24 hours a day.
To ensure your safety, follow these basic safety tips:
- Keep your room locked.
- Report suspicious or unfamiliar people to the Office of Residence Life or the University Police Department.
- Do not leave personal property in lounges or other common areas unattended.
- Do not prop open doors to your residence hall.
- Register all guests.
Missing Student Policy
Upon check-in, each residence hall student is required to provide emergency contact information. All residents under 18 years old must provide contact information for their parent or legal guardian. This information will be used if a student becomes missing or has a medical emergency. Students may update this information by contacting their Hall Director.
Missing students may be reported to the University Police Department or any Residence Life staff member. Upon notification of a potential missing student, the Office of Residence Life, Dean of Students Office and the University Police will begin a joint investigation of the situation. Upon determination that a student is actually missing for more than 24 hours, the student's emergency contact will be notified. In the case that the missing person is under 18 years old, the parent or legal guardian will be notified.
For more information go to Campus Safety.