I’m from South Carolina, but I ended up going to college in Missouri. After finals, I drive an average of 12 hours to get back home.
1. Bring the traditions to you.One of the big things my family does is advent calendars. I have one where I get a chocolate every day until Christmas and one that hangs on my door at home where I put up an ornament each day. This year, I wanted to bring an advent calendar with me to make sure that I was still participating. Bringing this tradition made me feel like I was back home and it was fun to get up every day and have that treat. My family is also really into holiday pj’s, so I bought a pair, just for some festive fun!
2. Find foods or activities that feel like home.
My roommates were incredibly tolerant of me this year, as I have been blasting holiday music through my speaker for the last three weeks. The festive music of the holiday season always puts me in a good mood, and my roommates were always ready to have a dance party with me when I needed one. I also was always on the lookout for goodies that would make me feel happy and excited. Items like food, little trinkets, and trips to the campus Starbucks would always make my day that much better.
3. Surround yourself with a good support system and get involved.
This semester, I was lucky to have such a good friend group around me. They were always excited to hang out and I was always excited to see them. Even if it was just during class or passing each other in the hallways, every positive interaction brightened my day. SEMO is also a campus that wants its students to be involved in the campus community, so there’s always something to do. I went to shows, end-of-the-year awards, holiday gatherings, and so much more. The activities offered on campus definitely helped to keep my spirits high while heading into finals week and missing my family.
It’s easy to keep a positive mindset when I remember that there are good things already around me. Friends, little gifts, small interactions, and all that’s offered on campus. Going through the holiday season without my family is always tough, but implementing these tips makes it so much better. Have a safe break and a happy new year!
Written by Isabel Kissel