How to make friends is one of the biggest questions college students ask (even if they don’t always say it out loud). It’s a valid concern—but the good news? College is one of the best places to meet new people and build lasting friendships.
Here’s your guide to making new friends and feeling more connected during your college journey.
Say Yes (Even If It’s a Little Out of Your Comfort Zone)
The first step in making new friends is putting yourself in situations where you can meet new people. Go to the residence hall event or an involvement fair, even if you don’t know anyone. Everyone else is also looking to connect, especially during the first few weeks of school. A simple “Hey, mind if I sit here?” can be the start of a friendship.
Join Student Organizations or Clubs
Start with shared interests. Whether it’s an academic club, a cultural organization, an intramural sports team, or an eSports group, joining a student organization gives you built-in reasons to connect. Bonus: These friendships often form faster because you already have something in common.
Make the First Move
This one can be hard, but it’s worth it. Don’t wait for others to approach you. Ask a classmate if they want to study together or invite someone from your residence hall to grab lunch. A little bit of bravery can go a long way in making friends early on.
Be Patient with Yourself
Not everyone finds their best friend on the first day of college. Real connections take time. If you’re not instantly surrounded by a group, that’s okay. Stay open, stay involved, and the right people will come along.
Use Campus Resources
SEMO offers First STEP, student support services, and a first-year seminar course designed to help students connect. These are great opportunities to meet people in a structured and supportive environment.
Making friends in college doesn’t have to be intimidating. Be open, be curious, and don’t be afraid to take the first step. College is full of people just like you—looking for someone to sit with in class, grab coffee between lectures, or talk during late-night study sessions.