My freshman year was a whirlwind of emotions, to say the least. I didn’t know what I wanted to study, I was severely homesick, and had a terrible work-life balance, among many other things. I mean college is so different than anything that many college freshmen have ever had to experience, so cut me a little slack. However, this year I told myself I was going to change that.
At the end of my freshman year, I changed my major. This is obviously not the answer for everyone. The decision to switch my major was a long, thought-out process. I am so thankful for the SEMO staff who are so encouraging and helpful in difficult decisions. They made the process of switching a breeze.
Along with switching my major, I believe that starting off my sophomore year with friends who I met last year made SEMO feel more like home. My favorite thing about SEMO is the lifelong friendships that it gave me. Before coming to college, I would sit and think about silly things like, “who are going to be my bridesmaids?!” I felt like I only had my one best friend and my sister. But SEMO has flipped that question to “how am I going to choose my bridesmaids?”
As soon as I came to SEMO, I got plugged into a campus ministry called Campus Outreach, which is now called Campus Movement, and it has truly impacted my life in so many ways. I knew coming into college that I wanted to get involved in a ministry, but I had no idea how blessed I would be with such an amazing community and friends who truly cared about me. I'm only a 19-year-old sophomore in college, but I know that these girls will be my lifelong friends. They are the reason I am so thankful that I chose SEMO. Here I didn’t feel like I got “lost in the crowd” or had friends who didn’t care about me but felt like I had the most genuine friendships I had ever experienced in my life.
Not to get all sappy, but seriously, SEMO is filled with some awesome people. Get involved in clubs and organizations and meet your lifelong friends. The experiences that you have and the people you meet are what you are going to remember about college.
That’s why it is also so important for you to have a work-school-life balance. Trust me, I understand academics are important. I am someone who still gets upset when I get a “low” grade. But I have also found that if you constantly shut yourself off and study 25/8, you WILL be miserable. Plan your day. Set aside time to study, time to be with friends, time to go to campus events, and time to just rest. I know it might seem a lot sitting down and planning each of your days but trust me it is so worth it. It will ensure that you’re getting time for homework, time to be around other people, and time to chill out, which are all extremely important to have a happy, balanced college life, at least for me.